Coaching for people navigating a shift — whether that's a crossroads, creeping exhaustion, or a growing sense that something needs to change.
Who this is for
Many people who arrive here are, by observers' standards, doing well.
But they have a nagging feeling they can't quite place.
Maybe you simply want to change something,
but aren't sure where to begin.
Where you are
Some clients need support, some need understanding,
some need a plan, and some need the right question to be asked.
Whether in tech, academia, or medicine, the demands, expectations, and personal standards are relentless and impossibly high. Meeting them requires daily compromises which can add up over time.
Our family and professional identities can be celebrated and rewarded by our environment and ourselves, to the point where being anyone else feels pointless. But there may come a time when you need to become someone beyond those roles.
Even the most careful of plans can last only until life interferes. Changes at work, at home, or where we want to go can be not only disruptive, but disorienting.
Sometimes our experience is so novel to us that we don't even know where to begin. The lack of clarity can compound the discomfort of the novel experience.
My job is to meet you where you are, and help you discover what you need.
About me
I spent years inside high-achievement environments — first in academia, earning a PhD in Computer Science from Uppsala University and conducting postdoctoral research at Stanford, and later as a software engineer in Silicon Valley's tech industry. I know what it's like to build a career that looks successful from the outside while quietly carrying questions the work doesn't quite answer.
That experience eventually led me to train in the Psychology of Personal Constructs, and its particularly humane approach: one that takes your experience seriously, exactly as it is, without trying to fit it into a template. Its key feature is that each person is unique, and therefore constructivist coaching is tailored to the person and their circumstances.
I founded Constructive Spaces for people who feel uncertain about their way forward. I was there, having navigated major life transitions of my own, including careers, countries, and cultures. The Psychology of Personal Constructs helped open my way forward. Let me help you open yours.
Reflections
Method
Our anticipations shape our lives more than we realize — what we reach for, what we avoid, and what never quite comes into view. Our work together starts with your experience exactly as it is, rather than with a predetermined idea of what the problem is or how it should be solved. We will look carefully at the world you already inhabit, and find what's possible within it. Often, that turns out to be more than you thought.
Scope What brings you here is rarely just a problem that appeared out of nowhere. More often, it's something you built — a way of responding, or a way of understanding, that made sense at the time and accumulated quietly over the years. You know more about your situation than you think. Most of it just hasn't been put into words yet. We take the time to unpack it together, without assumptions, to understand its full scope and what it means to you.
Frame Your situation lives between where you're coming from, where you're going, and how you understand it. We look at what you're working with and what you're working against — not just practically, but in terms of what you're prepared and able to engage with. Together, we place it in the broader story of your life, to understand why it shows up the way it does, and what you can do with it.
Design Now we can design an approach that is yours. We carefully consider a range of approaches — what each opens up, and what it asks of you — then tailor one that fits your circumstances, your abilities, and the way you see things.
Hone The only way to test the design is to put it to use. Each attempt gives useful information — what worked, what didn't, and why. We use that information to hone a solution that fits not just where you are now, but where you're going.
You leave with a deeper understanding of yourself and your situation, a clear vision of where you want to be, and a plan tailored to get there.
Often, by that point, the world already looks a little different.
Services
Weekly video sessions, one hour long.
I bring my expertise as a constructivist coach and computer science PhD, my lived experience navigating environments such as tech and academia, and my full attention.
Come with whatever is on your mind.
No topic is off-limits.
Practical solutions and strategies tailored to you.
Read more about the Method.
Price: $250/session.
Limited sliding scale spots available.
90 - 120 min talk for labs, research groups, and departments.
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We will discuss perspectives, tools, and practices to more easily navigate a career in academia. For early-career academics and leaders in academia who want to better support their teams and their community.